Thursday, April 21, 2011

Times are hard.

Is there ever a time or year or decade or even a century that there wasn't someone saying times are hard.  The question is where is your focus and what do you really know about hard.  A difficult life is very relative- as in it looks different for different people.  There will always be someone in a worse state than you.  It would be sad if you weren't capable of imagining a better life than the one you have.  This would be equivalent to not having a dream, goals, or a vision for yourself.  You will always be able to envision better and even harder times.  What am I saying.  Stop looking at what you don't have, could have, and would like to have and focus.  Focus on where you realistically are in life. Then you can in a healthy not beating yourself up way assess where and how you want to get to better.  It's having the steps in the right order.  Cause if you just keep looking at the better and never at where you are you are surely going to hit a wall. Before you look ahead on the road look at what you are stepping on or about to step in.  You'll be happier cause then you won't be mentally concerned about what you actually are stepping on cause you will be dealing with it.  Not just sticking it in some far corner of your brain to reek havoc on your senses, setting off warning lights all over your brain.  So focus and don't get distracted by what's up ahead but do look once in a while so you are prepared.

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