'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.'- Alfred, Lord Tennyson This is never an easy thing for the person who has just lost ( either in death or their choosing to end a relationship) the loved one. If the loss was to death it can never physically be undone but it never keeps the person from trying to recover that love. Something people will try to do if they are still alive. The truth really is if you love someone you should be able to let them go. The saying dose say if they return then they are yours but what if they go and come back about three times. I say let them go. Holding on or keeping people doesn't guarantee you have them or makes them stay, it just makes you miserable and leaves you feeling helpless. Trust that you have value and know it well enough to not allow their leaving to diminish you. You didn't leave. You should always remember that as long as you are being the best you can be that's all anyone can ask of you. Knowing that if they stayed when they shouldn't have it wouldn't keep the love it would bread something even you wouldn't recognize and would probably regret in the end. Letting things run natural courses and focusing where you should will help to soften the blow. The good memories are what it was all about, love.
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