If it were then it would be about who can flash the most swag, how much money you make, your pull in life. No life is not about the quality or quantity of our material goods. It's definitely not about the impressiveness of your social status. Nor is it about how well you do in life.
Life is about how we treat one another. It's about what's inside of us. It's about our ethics towards one another. It's about her ability to think beyond ourselves. It's about our boldness to fight for what is right not what we desire. It's about our ability to go above and beyond what we imagine for ourselves.
I know you're reading this and wondering what is she on. Though I know that even you will learn or already know that there is more value in relationships with people then there is with a bank account. There's far more value in how I treat another human being then there is with how Mary or John think of me- aka social bullying.
Know what's important and worth valuing, cause otherwise a waste you will be.